N O POINTING FINGERS



A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a

successful marriage. Could you please share with me our secret?" The

father-in-law

answered in a smile, "Never criticise your wife for her shortcomings or

when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her

shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than

you."



We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are

afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he

would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is

the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one

finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.



If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.